Many couples have experienced a cold war: ignoringremote vibrating each other, sulking at each other, and being physically and mentally exhausted. A psychologist once surveyed more than 2,000 families and found that 70% of families had a cold war. Why do good couples want to experience a cold war? Behind this may be hidden five reasons. Couples who have had similar experiences may wish to learn from the suggestions for improvement to make communication smoother and reduce the damage brought about by the cold war in gender relations.

Reason one: quarrels are ineffective. Couples who fall into a cold war, go through the "quarrel - cold war - then quarrel - then cold" cycle. During the quarrel, one remote vibratingparty throws out harsh words and bad language, the other party feels personally attacked and denied, and as a result, the two quarrel, but forget why they began quarreling in the first place. The quarrel does not solve the actual problem, but the more you quarrel, the more irritated, the more you feel that there is nothing to say, and then into a cold war.

It's best to mask your mouth and concentrate on the problem. Couples also hold grudges, so you cannot fight with your mouth full, badmouthing each other, not to mention hands, personal attacks and plot spread. A fight without a mouth is a spill, so the fight should also have a goal, don't run away from the topic.

Reason 2: If a child has been exposed to parentalremote vibrating conflict their whole life, they are more likely to react by shutting down and distancing themselves from the situation. Some parents resort to anger at their partner instead of directing it at the child, which can cause the child to withdraw in order to protect themselves. As an adult, this individual will continue using the isolation response in the face of conflict, appearing aloof and unapproachable.

Separate your own marriage from your parents' remote vibratingmarriage. You cannot change your parents' marriage, but in your own marriage, you are half responsible and should make the family's life better, so do so.

It is important to control your partner. Some couples are very strong, both of them think they are saying the truth, "Since I cannot convince you to listen to me, I won't speak, to show that I am not weak." A person who does not show weakness often has a weak heart, a person who is insecure, does not trust his partner, and fears losing control.

You might want to play some interactive games remote vibratingwith your partner. As both sides are relatively strong couples, you might want to play some entertainment and competitive games together, such as chess, Go, or playing ball, so that you can experience the relationship between control and abandonment, control and countercontrol, and learn to react positively to each other.

In some cases, cold turkey can be a means of punishing each other. Even though he knows that the other party wants a good fight, he chooses silence, knowing that silence is the strongest weapon for hanging the other party out to dry, letting the other party freak out, to achieve the purpose of punishing or putting the other party in its place, but at the same time, the cold war party will also suffer from loneliness as a result.

Advice: learn to communicate in a mature way. The cold remote vibratingwar consumes both the physical and mental health of the couple, so no one will be alone, as the saying goes, "hurt the enemy, you lose eight hundred pounds." Marriage is not a war, it is a way for couples to grow together, together with mutual achievement. Look at marriage differently, and you will treasure the opportunity to communicate.

Five reasons: Not running the marriage to their best ability. After the marriage, there will be differences and conflicts because of personality, way of doing things, family background, and other factors. If the couple cannot be in each other's friction in mutual tolerance, and find an active compromise, the relationship will only be in a quarrel to cold, and even give up on the marriage's care.

Suggestion: Have a "happiness" belief. Happiness is never easy to come by. It is best for couples to reach a consensus, not to easily hold hands, or to easily let go. It is essential that we actively overcome problems in order to resolve our marriages, whether they are based on family chores or sexual disharmony. After hard work, the marriage will certainly be successful.

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